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Trevor Ashwell

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Ashwell, Trevor

October 8, 1992 - November 9, 2017

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On Thursday, November 9, Trevor died in a tragic car accident. He was 25 years old. We are heartbroken.

Trevor is the beloved son of Monica and Dave, cherished little brother to fiercely-loving Robyn (Chael) and Jesse (Ellen), treasured grandson to Bill and Fran Ashwell and Shirley Hylkema (Lambert deceased), adored nephew, cousin, and friend.

Trevor was born in Comox, and graduated from Highland Secondary. He loved movement. Whether on his mountain bike, unicycle, longboard, surfboard, or snowboard, or while playing soccer, volleyball, League of Legends, or UVic Ultimate Frisbee, he moved with graceful fluidity and coordination. He loved to play, and he shared his playful spirit with others, challenging them to explore and enjoy their own abilities.

After high school, he attended NIC and UVic, working summers as a tree planter. Four and a half years ago he suffered a spinal cord injury that left him a C1-C2 quadriplegic. Trevor faced the colossal challenge of mourning and adjusting to his new reality with bravery, grace, and humour. He learned to share his vulnerability, and he showed us how to share ours.

He quickly mastered driving his sip’n’puff wheelchair with precision and finesse. He returned to UVic and applied his intelligence and spatial awareness to his Geography and GIS mapping courses. Always he maintained his playfulness and his humour. With the love and support of his family, his community, his amazing attendants, and his own daily courage, he had moved to a place where the present held hope and the future held promise.

Trevor became wise beyond his years. He was curious and informed, adding depth, insight and gentleness to conversations. He cared about justice and the environment, and he could explain why issues mattered. He rejected ideology, seeking nuance and understanding instead. Trevor was extraordinarily kind and patient. He was also brilliantly funny. He loved being around children, his expressive face becoming his way of connecting with them. He embodied gratefulness and generosity, and he was a trustworthy and empathetic confidant.

Trevor’s community was spectacularly generous after his spinal cord injury; the money remaining in Trevor’s Trust Fund will be distributed to charitable organizations he respected that worked on causes close to his heart, as well as those that helped him live with his injury. In memory of Trevor, find a way to spread kindness.

A memorial service for Trevor will be held on Saturday, November 25, at 12:30 pm at École Au-coeur-de-l’île, 566 Linshart Road, Comox. Casual dress is fine.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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From: Toneff Funeral Services

Toneff Funeral Services Staff send our condolences to family and friends.

From: John, Brenda & Brody Bavin
Relation: Our son Brody & Trevor went to school together.

Monica, Dave & family, We were so sorry to hear about Trevor. All of you have had such heartache. We grieve with you. We were glad to hear that he had such a positive attitude about his situation & his future. He will not be forgotten. We will be away for the service, but will be thinking of you.
Our sincerest sympathies to you all. John, Brenda & Brody Bavin

From: Brian and Ruth Turner
Relation: friends of his grandparents

To Trevor’s family. We are friends of Bill and Fran whom we know from church. We have kept Trevor in our thoughts and prayers these past years, have watched with admiration as, faced with incredible challenges, he reclaimed his life. Words can’t express how sad we feel for your loss of this beautiful young man.

From: Sara Chu
Relation: Didn't know Trevor personally. Am a friend of Bill his grandfather.

Reading the obituary I am impressed with what a beautiful person Trevor was. All of us, who are friends of his grandfather Bill at church, are terribly saddened by this loss. It sounds like Trevor lived a full lifetime in his 25 years, especially spiritually.

From: Alan and Debbie Harrison
Relation: friends

Dear Monica and Dave,
We are thinking of you.

From: Kathy McCabe
Relation: have known family for many years

Dear Monica, Dave, Robyn and Jesse,
I am so touched by your beautiful words about Trevor and send all of you much light and love. I can see him right now unicycling up Croteau and, later on, almost flying down in his wheelchair. Thank you for inviting us on Saturday to honour the beautiful person, and soul, that he is.

From: Sohlea Rico
Relation: Family friend

Monica, Dave and family. I just heard about Trevor. My heart is with you in what must be a profoundly difficult time. A remarkable light filled being blessed everyone with his presence and was a profound teacher and model of how to live with courage, grace and kindness. Thank you all for loving and caring for him. Love, Sohlea

From: Jean Gibson
Relation: Our children were in school together, parents on the soccer field together.

Monica, Dave Robyn and Jesse. I am just heart broken by your loss. I have no words. Know that so many people are with you at this time.

Service Schedule

  Memorial Service

Date & Time:
November 25, 2017
Beginning at 12:30pm

Location:
Ecole Au-coeur-de-lile
566 Linshart Road
Comox, BC Canada

566 Linshart Road
Comox, BC Canada

Memorial Gifts

The family has not designated a preferred charity at this time.

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